अद्वेष्टा सर्वभूतानां मैत्र: करुण एव च ।
निर्ममो निरहङ्कार: समदु:खसुख: क्षमी ॥ १३ ॥
adveṣhṭā sarva-bhūtānāṁ maitraḥ karuṇa eva cha
nirmamo nirahankāraḥ sama-duḥkha-sukhaḥ kṣhamī
श्लोक १३: जो किसी भी प्राणी के प्रति द्वेष नहीं रखता, सभी के प्रति मैत्रीपूर्ण और दयालु है, जिसमें अहंकार और अभिमान नहीं हैं, दुःख और सुख को एक ही दृष्टि से देखता है, और क्षमावान है…
Shloka 13: One who harbours no hatred towards any being, is friendly and compassionate to all, devoid of possessive mentality and ego, treats happiness and distress equally and is forgiving;
Bhagavad Gita verse 12.13-14 represents one of the most profound descriptions of a true devotee in the entire scripture. As Krishna concludes Chapter 12, He shifts from discussing various approaches to devotional practice to outlining the sublime qualities that make a devotee especially dear to Him. These verses begin a beautiful section where Krishna describes the characteristic virtues of those who have truly embodied the path of bhakti.
In verse 12.13, Krishna begins by emphasizing that His dear devotee is "adveṣṭā" - one who harbors no hatred or envy toward any living being. This quality forms the foundation of spiritual life, as hatred and envy are the primary obstacles to divine love. Such a devotee is "maitraḥ" (friendly) and "karuṇa" (compassionate) toward all creatures, seeing them as fellow spiritual beings on their own journey. This compassion isn't condescending pity but a genuine concern for others' welfare, recognizing that all beings share the same spiritual essence. The devotee lives without the burden of possessiveness ("nirmama"), understanding that everything ultimately belongs to the Lord. Similarly, they remain free from false ego ("nirahaṅkāraḥ"), not identifying with the temporary body or taking pride in worldly achievements.
Krishna further describes His dear devotee as "sama-duḥkha-sukhaḥ" - balanced in both pleasure and pain. This equipoise comes from the deep understanding that both joy and sorrow are temporary conditions of material existence that do not affect one's true spiritual nature. The devotee is also "kṣamī" - forgiving and tolerant, not holding grudges even when mistreated. These qualities reflect an elevated consciousness that sees beyond the immediate circumstances to the deeper reality.
In verse 12.14, Krishna continues His description, noting that His beloved devotee is "santuṣṭaḥ" - always satisfied and content, regardless of external circumstances. This contentment doesn't stem from having all desires fulfilled but from transcending the endless cycle of desire itself. The devotee is "satataṁ yogī" - always connected to the Divine through consciousness and practice. This constant connection isn't just during formal meditation but permeates every aspect of life.
Krishna's devotee practices self-control ("yatātmā"), mastering the senses rather than being controlled by them. They are "dṛḍha-niścayaḥ" - firmly determined in their spiritual path, unwavering in their commitment despite challenges or distractions. Most importantly, they have offered their mind and intelligence fully to Krishna ("mayy-arpita-mano-buddhiḥ"), making Him the center and purpose of all their thoughts and decisions.
What makes these verses particularly significant is Krishna's conclusion: "yo mad-bhaktaḥ sa me priyaḥ" - such a devotee is very dear to Me. This statement reveals that the Lord's love is drawn not by external ritual or philosophical knowledge alone, but by these inner qualities that transform a person's entire being. While various spiritual practices can lead one toward God, it is the cultivation of these divine qualities that truly captures Krishna's heart.
These verses paint a portrait of spiritual maturity that transcends religious boundaries. The devotee Krishna describes has moved beyond mechanical practice to embody the essence of spiritual wisdom - seeing all beings with equal vision, remaining detached from material possessions while being fully engaged in service, and maintaining inner peace regardless of external circumstances. Such a devotee naturally attracts not only the Lord's affection but also becomes a source of inspiration for others on the spiritual path.
The qualities described are not meant to be merely admired but actively cultivated through sincere practice. They represent the natural flowering of devotion in the heart of one who has understood the essence of Krishna's teachings. By meditating on these qualities and striving to incorporate them into our lives, we move closer to the ideal that Krishna holds dear, transforming not just our relationship with the Divine but our entire experience of existence.
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